{"id":147,"date":"2013-12-29T12:49:56","date_gmt":"2013-12-29T07:19:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cogiaworld.comze.com\/2013\/12\/no-one-picking-up-my-phone\/"},"modified":"2013-12-29T12:49:56","modified_gmt":"2013-12-29T07:19:56","slug":"no-one-picking-up-my-phone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2013\/12\/no-one-picking-up-my-phone\/","title":{"rendered":"no one picking up my phone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve called my gf quite a few times in this past week but nope. can&#8217;t talk! my timings are just too bad! I call either when she&#8217;s out with friends, in movie hall, or sleeping! and she can&#8217;t call me back for some understandable reason! Drama and Oishika didn&#8217;t pick up their phones either. not interested in talking to good ol dhruv! cuz.. give a damn to him! :p<\/p>\n<p>or hang on&#8230; I might as well just call him anyway! I&#8217;ll call prashasti after she returns back to banasthali! as for now, let her have fun with the people she rarely can meet ever since she&#8217;s gone to hostel! doesn&#8217;t make a difference with regard to me cuz we can&#8217;t meet even when she has her holidays, cuz I&#8217;m not in Delhi! and so I need to crack aiims to find an excuse to stay close to her!<br \/>\ngive a damn to dhruv! I&#8217;m gonna go, study!<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"post_sig\">Posted from WordPress for Android<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Its such a bittersweet world!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5],"tags":[24,53,56,61,73,120,124],"class_list":["post-147","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-stuff","tag-aiims-cracking","tag-delhi","tag-dhruv","tag-drama","tag-forever-alone-p","tag-no-call-pickups","tag-oishika"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4KGvB-2n","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":285,"url":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2014\/01\/shes-not-picking-up-my-call\/","url_meta":{"origin":147,"position":0},"title":"She&#8217;s not picking up my call!","author":"Abhinav","date":"January 17, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"no one picking up my phone","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Life stuff&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Life stuff","link":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/category\/life-stuff\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/wpid-wp-1390043210397.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/wpid-wp-1390043210397.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/wpid-wp-1390043210397.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/wpid-wp-1390043210397.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/wpid-wp-1390043210397.jpg?resize=1050%2C600&ssl=1 3x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/wpid-wp-1390043210397.jpg?resize=1400%2C800&ssl=1 4x"},"classes":[]},{"id":648,"url":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2014\/11\/whats-an-expert-i-sincerely-want-to-know\/","url_meta":{"origin":147,"position":1},"title":"What&#8217;s An Expert? 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