{"id":654,"date":"2014-11-12T21:02:37","date_gmt":"2014-11-12T15:32:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abhinav.spsdarj.org\/?p=654"},"modified":"2015-03-28T23:10:18","modified_gmt":"2015-03-28T17:40:18","slug":"my-friends-have-girlfriends-i-never-had-and-feel-depressed-about-it-what-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2014\/11\/my-friends-have-girlfriends-i-never-had-and-feel-depressed-about-it-what-to-do\/","title":{"rendered":"My Friends have girlfriends. I never had and feel depressed about it. What to do?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Answer by Nabarun Mondal:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Right now I am solving a problem of how to automatically generate a graph from a bunch of processes.<\/p>\n

This is Friday weekend and my entertainment is to study the History of North East India, and then General Relativity.
\nNO, I am not a “student”, and Yes, I still study.<\/p>\n

I wear a :<\/p>\n

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78 102 AA 01 | H\u00e9ritage | Montres Louis Erard<\/a><\/span>
\nAnd I have some other watches too.
\nI drive a :<\/p>\n

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in India, whose EMI is 30K a month.<\/p>\n

I have a Library where I have more than 3000 books which I read.
\nI used to debug Windows Kernel.
\nRight now I am typing in a Macbook pro – while next thing would be to bug fixing my own language which is the de facto standard for automation where I work.<\/p>\n

I would probably die at 80ish.
\nI am now 33 .
\nI have only 47 more years or so to fix whatever I could.<\/p>\n

My aim is to change the way the reality has been perceived : foundational problems in Quantum mechanics by applying Dynamical System theory.
\nAnd have a fleet of Jaguars.<\/p>\n

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All my friends are married – and almost all of them are fathers by now.<\/p>\n

I am single, never had a girlfriend.
\nWhere is the time? Even the time for caring?<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/div>\n

When you start from scratch, you know that the world is NOT FAIR, and there is no FREE LUNCH.<\/p>\n

You pick.
\nYou choose. And when a choice is made stick to it.
\nThere is really no escape plan.<\/p>\n

I am 21 and never had a girlfriend. Most of my friends are in a relationship. I feel kind of depressed and that I would never have a girl…<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Answer by Nabarun Mondal: Right now I am solving a problem of how to automatically generate a graph from a bunch of processes. This is Friday weekend and my entertainment is to study the History of North East India, and then General Relativity. NO, I am not a “student”, and Yes, I still study. I…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-654","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-motivate"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4KGvB-ay","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1290,"url":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2017\/01\/how-do-iitians-get-a-package-of-almost-1-crore-2\/","url_meta":{"origin":654,"position":0},"title":"How do IITians get a package of almost 1 crore?","author":"Abhinav","date":"January 16, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"How do IITians get a package of almost 1 crore? by Aman Goel Answer by Aman Goel: They don\u2019t. 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Indian politicians on Indian soldiers' death:Soldiers died? That's what they do.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Knowledge"","block_context":{"text":"Knowledge","link":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/category\/knowledge\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1199,"url":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2016\/10\/what-rights-do-i-have-if-i-have-been-arrested-by-the-police-in-india\/","url_meta":{"origin":654,"position":5},"title":"What rights do I have if I have been arrested by the police in India?","author":"Abhinav","date":"October 23, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"What rights do I have if I have been arrested by the police in India? by Tejasvita ApteAnswer by Tejasvita Apte:The first thing you need to know is -Every person who is arrested is supposed to be taken before the nearest magistrate within 24 hours of the arrest. 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