{"id":969,"date":"2016-07-25T12:35:15","date_gmt":"2016-07-25T07:05:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abhinav.spsdarj.org\/?p=969"},"modified":"2016-07-25T12:36:42","modified_gmt":"2016-07-25T07:06:42","slug":"my-friend-just-died-i-dont-know-what-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abhinavkr.com\/musings\/2016\/07\/my-friend-just-died-i-dont-know-what-to-do\/","title":{"rendered":"My friend just died. I don&#8217;t know what to do."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"reddit-embed\" data-embed-media=\"www.redditmedia.com\" data-embed-parent=\"false\" data-embed-live=\"true\" data-embed-uuid=\"a28bc4ff-14ca-48e0-874f-8d9da6b97ef8\" data-embed-created=\"2016-07-25T07:06:15.877Z\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Assistance\/comments\/hax0t\/my_friend_just_died_i_dont_know_what_to_do\/c1u0rx2\">Comment<\/a> from discussion <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Assistance\/comments\/hax0t\/my_friend_just_died_i_dont_know_what_to_do\/\">My friend just died. 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